How to know if your partner is cheating on you?

It is often said that “all is fair in love and war”, but sometimes love can be a little bit blind to some things, and we’re not talking about looks, but about jealousy. Once routine is on the agenda and things start to get difficult, it can become hard to distinguish when we’re being paranoid and when our suspicion has foundation. That’s why, we have some tips on how toknow if your partner is cheating on you:

A sudden change of habits.

If you start noticing that your partner’s routine is changing suddenly; if he starts to have more and more new interests, if he’s more open or even proposes to try things that he usually wasn’t even interested about or hated, maybe there’s another one convincing him that it’s not so bad after all.
His behavior towards his phone privacy becomes insane

One of the most common signs to know if your partner is hiding something from you when they become obsessed with their phone privacy; maybe you notice he erases the phone records, he changes his password, he takes his cellphone everywhere and if not, rushes to it every time it rings and you’re around and even takes a lot of night calls that must be attended right away and you must not listen; if you ask for a message he would write it for you and wouldn’t lend it otherwise… This pattern is very common when hiding a side chick.

He becomes very aggressive and paranoid about you being the one who’s cheating.

It is very usual that a cheating personas has a lot of accumulated guilt and no idea on how to handle it so the anxiety manifests and probably will make him act very suspicious himself and attack you (verbally we hope) at any mention or apparition of any other men. Maybe he starts fighting a lot for no reason, maybe he will try to check your social networks, maybe he just tries to forbid you to speak with male friends or family. If you’re not giving him reasons but he’s unstoppable, it’s your turn to ask the questions.

You never know where he is.

If his whereabouts are always uncertain and suddenly he appears with an all detailed and extravagant story about how “he wasn’t doing anything wrong and you won’t believe all that happened that he just couldn’t answer your phone or text you where he was” turn the alarm on, it may be true once in a while but if it becomes usual, combined with a lot of off-work reunions and travels, my dear you have to know what’s going on.

He always lies about everything.

If you start to spot lies, relationship obviously has a problem but if, besides, you begin to notice some loose ends that are answered with more lies, if some lipstick mark or perfume is covered as “just a friend”, you must definitely know it. Or you get into the phase when your husband is hiding he is visitig women uknown for you or even something worse.

Relationships are complex and more than one reason can bring cheating as a consequence, so it is important to be honest about our relationship status and be rational about things. Most of these situation can happen in life without being necessarily sign of cheating, but if you notice that they’re all happening at a time and becoming a habit, you must confront your partner to clear the situation because, even though these things are significant signs, only his reaction will tell you the truth, that is the best to know if your spouse is cheating on you.