Sometimes you don’t have to feel guilty when breaking up with your girl

How many break-ups also result in feelings of guilt amongst partners?

Why guilt? Guilt comes if you have done any wrong that has not been corrected. If you have done wrongs with your partner and refuse to acknowledge them before break-up that will be very painful afterwards. Let me tell you something. Most of us never believe that we have done any wrong. As time passes we realize our wrongs and by that time all is lost. The feelings of guilt therefore take over after that and make life impossible.

Don’t break up with your partner by text, phone or email. This is disrespectful. Don’t place blame solely only on your girl… both of you are in.
Don’t listen to a blabbermouths.

The five myths about breaks ups are:
It’s not you, it’s me. Ofcourse, there are always two persons in relationship.
Getting over it will happen quickly. If it was serious, then not.
Men initiate breakups most often because they cheat and hook with other women.
I think we should see other people.
If your ex was a jerk, you won’t miss him.

Sometimes you don’t have to have a reason to break up with someone. I know it seems like you should have a reason, but you don’t need one, other than wanting to break up. The worst breakups are the ones where no one is at fault.

It is human and understandable, as well as often entrenched in our psyches to feel guilt. After a breakup, old, negative, unresolved feelings fuse with new ones to create the overwhelming feeling that the breakup is just too painful for your partner to bear.

Every situation is different. There’s no one-size-fits-all approach to breaking up. But there are some general “do’s and don'ts” you can keep in mind as you start thinking about having that break-up conversation. Be honest and have only good intentions.

The good news is that the sadness doesn’t last forever, and brighter days lay ahead. You know it. Let yourself grieve. Take care of and pamper yourself. Surround yourself with healthy support. Go out for some excercise, find any meaningful job… easy task.

I am 100 percent convinced that the patriarchy is secretly behind these breakup myths. While this is framed like it’s for your benefit, this is completely what would make him the most comfortable—to be able to stay in your life, know that he hasn’t hurt you, know that you are cool with everything and be relieved you’re not gonna make a scene.