Why men sometimes cheat their girls and wives
*Marriage is not a cakewalk. It takes a lot of job to maintain a marriage. It is a complete partnership. *
Like any partnership, marriage will not develop and grown unless both parties perform their part. This is why if you feel like you are the just one doing the job in the marriage, there is a possibility that your partner is no longer interest in keeping the marriage. If you believe that your husband does not seem to take any effort in the marriage, then there is a strong chance that he might be having an affair. Cheating husbands are more general than cheating girls/wives. If you believe that your husband is not being honest, you should first try to know why he is doing it. Here are best reasons why they do it.
For the sex
Some husband cheats because they want to have sex. For them, sex is worthless. This means it is not a large deal for them to sleep with other girl because they do not love those women. For them, it is perfect with other women since they still love their wives. The sex is only something that they do to fulfill their physical needs. This may sound like a very bad reason, but this is what most men think.
Ego-booster
Once a husband been in a relationship for a number of years they may get tired or bored of the same old routine. Not all men are cut out to be best soccer Dad who attends every training sessions; some just want some challenge and an adventure. And then they like to talk loudly about it… or write public blogs.
Cheating is also an alternative of relieving the dull of domestic life, especially if the new love is attractive and young. This makes him feel best about himself and proves he is still popular.
He is bored
Sometimes, a man cheats on his girl because he is bored. He only does the cheating because it is exciting for him. The fun of doing something in secret and making sure that his girl does not catch him makes him feel alive. It provides him a little reprieve from his dull life.
*Convenience *
Men’s sexual drive is naturally powerful, but that does not mean to say they want to leave their partner and begin a new life with someone new.
Actually, a big percentage of men who cheat are hoping their girlfriends or wives never find out, as they would much favor to have their cake and eat it.
Many don’t deliberately go out to cheat, but if someone attractive and new joints their workplace or they are out with their friends and the chance arises.
He wants out of the relationship
Men who want out of their present relationship but don’t know how to tell their girlfriends or wives often cheat hoping their partner packs up with signals without them having to face the problem directly.
These kind of men have also been known to exactly leave clues to their dishonest affair on purpose so their partner think they have discovered the reality.